Learning to Love Yourself!


It is a wonderful feeling to be loved by someone else

However, the best sense of happiness and love is when you learn to love yourself

Always remember the journey to self-love begins when you work on finding out who you truly are, to love yourself

If you want to feel love from others, you hold the high power when you love yourself.

Moreover, “Love” is something that is traditionally represented as blind that is lacking sight

Furthermore, “Love” is holding hands and hugging hard, even when you fight over stupid things, you still love one another with all your might

I would say, “I Love you” are three of the most powerful words.

And hearing your partner says, “I love you” is something even better to be heard.

I recommend you don’t listen to people who can con you by saying, “I love you” with words

Judge them by their actions, not words, so that your emotional flow are not stirred

Love’s a word few know the true meaning of,

“Love” is a four letter word that can be found anywhere in the world

So keep these memories to “Love yourself.”

Because some people who lips, they love you, “Love” can be like the book that they keep on turning the pages, and you won’t be the last book placed on the shelf.

“Love yourself.” means your choice to continue to live your life to say yes to the possibilities even though other people may not approve of your decisions

To truly love yourself — inside and out, you must learn to love the skin you in, accept and take advantage of the limitless opportunities available to you and believe in your vision.

“Love” is a potent drug. When you feel it, it can hit you really hard. It can give you the feeling it is delaying time, making it seem like the entire world is still except for you two.

If you heard of this self-help proverb: We need to love ourselves before we can love anyone else. Consequently, the first step to loving yourself is to let yourself become disconnected from the world and know what you deserve and like what you do.

On my journey to learning about myself and work on my self-love, I realized I am a constant work in progress and several major truths that still resonate with me and support my particular effort.

To assist you to gain more perspective and have a territory on which to begin your journey of self-love, here are five truths to remember:

1. Never compare yourself to another person. People gain success and fail at different rates.

2. It’s okay to spend time alone. Sometimes it’s better to be alone well worth time spent to learn to love yourself

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Whitney Houston & Michael Jackson two of the best-chosen Vessels of God

whitney-houstons-official-funeral-program-1-728Ms. Whitney Elizabeth Houston was born on August 9, 1963, in Newark, New Jersey to a very talent family. Whitney’s mother Cissy Houston, Dionne Warwick her cousin and Aretha Franklin her Godmother are all famous legendary singers. With all this talent in her family, Houston seemed born to sing. Houston’s mother Cissy Houston was a member of New Hope Baptist Church. She also was the choir minister. Therefore, Whitney was heavy involved which is where she receive her start.

Houston love singing in church as a little girl, she was able to win over the listeners early in her life. New Hope Baptist Church had a significant effect on Whitney singing, and it was there where she knew her singing ability was a special gift that God had given her. At the age of 15 Houston began performing with her mother and was discovered to begin teenage modeling. She also was the first Black teen female to be seen on the cover of Seventeen magazine. However, singing was where her heart belong.

In 1985, Houston decided to try her wings, she released her first album, Whitney Houston. It was a big hit immediately, and she was able to soar very high on number one hit like Saving All My Love for You” and “How Will I Know”. Houston reached the highest chart and stayed for 14 straight weeks. In 1986, she won her first Grammy for “Saving All My Love for You”.

In 1987, Houston did a follow-up album, it as well went platinum and won a Grammy for her famous song “I Wanna Dance with Somebody (Who Loves Me).” Houston develops into an overnight sensation, a big star and a force to be reckoned with. She had begun to live her real dream and that to sing, and she knew she want to do her part to help as many as possible. Therefore, she did concerts that support projects to help disadvantaged children all over the world.

In 1992, Houston surprised the world and married R&B singer Bobby Brown. She had a lot going on at this time a successful world tour following and crossing over successfully into acting with opposite Kevin in The Bodyguard. The project set a trend for Houston, and the soundtracks create outstanding record sales. The Bodyguard, soundtrack “I Will Always Love You,” was the biggest hit ever for Houston, earnings a record-breaking 14 weeks top of the U.S. charts.

It earns Houston three Grammys and Album of the Year and Record of the Year. Whitney also starred in films like Waiting to Exhale and The Preacher’s Wife, they both were put together with hit soundtracks. In spite, all this success Houston begin growing personal troubles.

Despite developing personal concerns, Houston continued to progress in her career. In 1998, Houston created “My Love was Your Love”, the first album in several years. Houston earns another Grammy for her single “It is Not Right, but it is Okay.” Although the album did not make her the success her previous releases, her partnership with Mariah Carey created a hit single for “When You Believe,” which earned an Academy Award.

By the early 2000s, Houston was the biggest female vocalist of all times but her married struggles with rumors of drugs. The rumors began to ruin her career. Nonetheless, Houston been chosen and gifted she will always be the best singer. In 2006, the Guinness World Records named her the most talent female artist of all time. On March 4, 1993, Houston gave birth to a beautiful baby girl and named her Bobbi Kristina Brown.

Houston tried to repair her married for several years but after a failed attempt and taking a break from her career she won sole custody of Bobbi Kristina and divorced Brown in 2007. In 2012, Houston film a musical called “Sparkle” with Jordin Sparks which was a remake of the 1976 movie about an all-girl vocal group related to the Supremes. Unfortunately, Houston did not live to see the grand opening to her reach accomplishment, she died on February 11, 2012. Although Houston died in a confusing way she was fearless and lived the life as she desired, she was not ashamed of the life she lived.

God chose Whitney; she did not have a choice. Every time she graced the stage with her lovely voice, the people felt God’s love being shared to them through her. Although many did not understand her love, she loved hard and strived to deal with the heavy weight she carried on her shoulder. This is the weight of being one of God’s chosen person.

Yes, the duties and the responsibilities she carried was a heavy burden to her, but she desired to show grace to others. Whitney understood love, and she loved so much more than just her loved ones. She even loved those who did not deserve her love because she knew love manifests the presence of Christ.

Being a chosen vessel of God would require you to know your identity and abilities to serve your purpose in God’s plan. The problem many chosen vessels face is the lack of knowledge about their own identity and abilities. As a chosen vessel, you owe your life solely to God.

To create balance in your life as a chosen vessel, you must be aware of the pros and cons that you face. Yes, there are more disadvantages than advantages in being God’s steward. But God inspires His chosen vessels and instills in them outstanding talent and skill for them to cope with for what He plans for them to do. Being a child of Jesus Christ gives many responsibilities to humanity but as a chosen vessel of God you have a lot of duties and setbacks to encounter.

As believers in Jesus Christ, it is important that we recognize ourselves and not fall into the trap set by the devil. The devil tricked Adam and Eve in the past because they doubted their born identities; we must not allow history to repeat itself and prevent this from happening by holding tightly to our faith in God. To learn our true identity and abilities, we must seek and find them through Jesus Christ and our spiritual side.

Looking into an ordinary mirror is not enough to see our spiritual side and only God’s mirror can help us see things clearly. God’s mirror is the word of God. Spending the time to learn about God’s chosen vessels can help us avoid any setbacks and disadvantages from being a chosen vessel. In this way, we would get to enjoy life with all our favorites, abundances, and continued prosperity.

God has a lot of chosen vessels and many who still exists in this world. Ms. Whitney Houston was one of God’s chosen people with a talent that will never be forgotten. Mr. Michael Jackson is another chosen vessel that walked the earth in a way that no one will ever be able to measure up to.

These two vessels were the best of God’s chosen ones. But the question is, did they know their true identity? Did they know their real abilities? I know that they both knew their talent and that talent was to share the gift of love as well as to give the best of their efforts to the world. They both did that and brought happiness to many each time they graced the stage. They both was the best at what they did, and many loved them.

Did they both make the most out of being a chosen vessel or did the curse chase both of them down? Well, that is yet to be determined, only God can decide that. Personally, I feel they did a lot of goods and helped many through their talent. Whitney and Michael were two chosen vessels and God enriched them with talent so that they could help other people overcome life’s challenges.

Let’s remember Jesus Christ and that he was perfect in every way. Whitney and Michael were both flesh and blood that were chosen by God to serve as angels to many. Jesus Christ demonstrated His perfect love for us by supplying our greatest need. Whitney and Michael were role models to other people. They spent their entire lives blessing others, and this is the reason God continuously blessed them spiritually. They shall serve as inspirations to many generations to come.

Mr. Michael Joseph Jackson was born into a very talent family in Gary, Indiana, on August 29, 1958. Katherine Jackson Michael’s mother was a homemaker. Joseph Jackson Michael’s father had been a guitarist playing with a group but put aside his musical aspirations to work as a crane operator to provide for his family. Joseph Jackson believed in his son’s talent. In the 1960s, he influenced them into one of the most impressive group in Gary, Indiana.

The Jackson family begin performing as the older brothers and Michael later join at the age of five. Michael’s mother Katherine heard him sing and knew he was a gifted young man and ask Joseph to allow him to join the group. Under Katherine influence, the group allows Michael to rehearse with the group, and he became the group’s lead vocalist. After Michael join the group they became a member of five which gave the group the name Jackson 5. The group consists of Tito, Jermaine, Jackie, Marlon, and Michael.

Michael vocal impressed the audiences because he shared incredible sound and depth for such a young entertainer. He also had strong ability to convey complex emotion with the audiences. However, with Joseph pushing the group to spend endless hours rehearsing the Jackson 5 played regional shows and developed strong support. Joseph assists the Jackson 5 to record a single called Big Boy” and also “You’ve changed “but it fail to attract much attention.

The Jackson 5 progressed on to begin working with legendary Motown performers like Gladys Knight and the Pips, James Brown and Sam and Dave. They were the reason in which the Jackson 5 signed the label with Motown in 1968. The rumor subsisted that Gladys Knight was the one to reveal the Jackson 5 to Motown founder Berry Gordy.

The Jackson 5 begin working on their music career with Joseph as their manager. They left Gary, Indiana and began living with Motown founder Berry Gordy and also with singer Diana Ross lead of the Supremes. In August 1969, the Jackson 5 perform their first event when they were introduced to the music industry by been an opening act for the Supremes.

In January 1970, the Jackson 5 first album “I Want You Back,” reach number 1 on the Billboard. Additional number one hit records briefly followed, hits like “ABC,” “The Love You Save” and “I’ll be there. Nonetheless being a star that predestine to shine just 13 years of age Michael started a solo career. In 1971, Michael first No. 1 single was “Got to Be There”. Although Michael continues to tour with his brothers and the group was very popular that it generated their very own cartoon show from 1971 to 1973. Michael decides to attain an individual career because he wanted more control over his life and career.

In 1979, Michael Jackson released a solo album with producer Quincy Jones, “Off the Wall” which feature song like “Don’t Stop ’til You Get Enough,” “Rock with You,” and “She’s Out of My Life.” After releasing a solo album, Michael decides to branch out and sing solo. In 1982, Michael team up with rock legend Paul McCartney and sang a duet, “The Girl Is Mine” didn’t achieve top of the pop charts but the song “Thriller” hit the top the chart to become the best-selling album in history and created seven top 10 hits

 Also in 1979, Michael debuted his famous dance move “The Moonwalk.” The moonwalk was the dance choreographed from the video of his top of the chart single, “Beat It.” However, Michael performed Motown television special and debuted his number one hit “Billie Jean”. Michael “Thriller” video remained on top for 80 weeks, maintaining the No. 1 recognition for 37 weeks. “Thriller” accumulated 12 Grammy Award nominations, winning eight.

The “Thriller” video was an enormous success; it increase sales for Jackson. “Thriller” remained on the top of the chart for 80 weeks, maintaining the No. 1 recognition for 37 weeks. In addition to it is beyond compare commercial achievements. “Thriller” accrued eight winning and accumulated 12 Grammy nominations. Michael won the best R&B song for “Billie Jean.” In which it won a Grammy Award. He shared a Grammy with co-producer Quincy Jones for album of the year for “Billie Jean.” For the best male vocal, Michael won a Grammy for “Beat It”.

By 2001, people felt Michael behavior started to overshadow his talent . Nonetheless, Michael as a very gifted artist he broke many records. From November 6, 1971, to January 1, 2011, Michael received the longest duration of U.S. Top 40 singles from the Guinness World Records. He was the first artist to have five number 1 single and 13 Grammy Awards from his 1997’s album “Bad.” Michael was an inductee into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame for performing with the Jackson 5 and as a solo artist.

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