The Reflection in my Mirror!

From the reflection in my mirror, there is only one person who holds the driving force and that’s me. My reflection in the mirror only shows what’s outside as no one can see deep within. Only I know and see the face in the mirror as I really truly am. The reflection in my mirror is the effect of all my life’s experiences that only I can present. Given that I have the final say how to represent myself in a world that is repeatedly changing it is vital how I interact with the reflection in my mirror.

As I stand in front of my mirror I ask myself what do you see when you look in the mirror’? Do I recognize the person who standing before the mirror or is I developing an imagine of a person others require of me which is nothing like me? It is vital for me to have knowledge of who I am within the reflection in my mirror and not lose who I am in the shadow of the personalities.

Sometimes, seeing can be deceiving and when dreaming one might wonder is it believing. Since I been old enough to begin looking at myself, I have developed beliefs, values, and experiences that undoubtedly has helped shape me into this reflection I see today. My life consists of stumbling blocks that blocked my reflection in the mirror and stood in the way of my happiness.

Nevertheless, looking for my reflection makes me realizes I have to stop these stumbling blocks now to continue to see my reflection. This mirror is here as my escort to remind me to do the things that I need to do, but my reflection is an imagine that let me know I need to take control of my life, and today is the beginning. As I struggle to understand why it is the reflection in the mirror echoed from the mirrors as it does.

While my experiences undoubtedly helped shape me, that does not mean I grasp everything in my life as I have to not live life in a prison created by my mind. To not live life in a prison set up by my cognizance I must not live my life like I am “sleep-walking” through it as I search for answers to any problem that makes me miserable at the end of each day. When I look into the mirror and the reflection are missing then I am still living my life like I am trying to distinguish how to live life to the fullest, to see the reflection I have to come into contact with what life has to offer. That does not mean I can dream myself out of a miserable life into another life, but it does mean that I can exert myself on the road to seeing life crystal clear when I look into the mirror.

I must understand my life for me to take control of my existence and continue to see the reflection in my mirror. I must not allow another person imagine replace the face in my mirror. There are various questions I keep asking myself when my face appear in the mirror “How well do I know myself?” How do I stop stumbling blocks from removing my reflection of who I am and never allow life to overwhelm me?” How do I continue to see my reflection if I have no idea what face are before me in the mirror?” For me to have the answer to these questions I have to distinguish who I am and understand what I want in life. I need to differentiate who I am because identity has a way of evolving. Although there comes, a time in everyone lives when they just don’t feel comfortable looking in the mirror. For the reason, knowing your identity is an ongoing journey to see the reflection in the mirror, as discovering who you are can be ongoing.

Change Your Thoughts,Change Your Words, Change Your Life!

thoughtsWords make an unbelievable amount of difference and for this reason children who have not yet learned the power of words should certainly learn from the words spoken by parents. Have you ever heard someone say, “You are going to eat those words?” To some, it may sound like a fabricated statement, but in reality, people do eat their words. If only we all knew the power of words. What you say not only hold power but it affects others and also affects you.

The power of words is incredible especially when used in an appropriate way they can change situations. Words can make a surprising amount of difference by encouraging, edify, and give confidence to the hearer. The right words can add color to black and white days. Moreover, using them and learning new ways, they can make your life amazing. Words will add substance to those pleasant moments, and they will make you the very best that you can be, and that is a powerful effect.

How Words Can Change Your Life

Words hold the power to shape a person to who they are, how people see them and how successful they end up. Words are powerful and amazing. They also have a way of making a person come out of their shell and perceive the world for what it offers. Try to remember the first words that you ever said? Chances are those words reassured that the child in you are growing up and learning. Do you remember the cruelest words someone ever said to you? The kind of word that cut into the depth like a knife. We all have experienced a harsh spoken word at some time in our lives.

Think back on the power of those words? Also, think of the impact of negative words over those which are positive. Positive words can change a person perception of life. They can encourage and help people through difficult times. Also, they can supply strengthen in times of weakness and assist a person to cope with all that life throws at them. Words can put a label on many. They articulate outcomes and also leave an impression. Thus all the words that you receive from people over the years build you into who you are today. Words bring about the beliefs that you have and enhance your character along with an outlook on life.

Thus, if negative words are frequently used within your life, you collect them. Destructive words are very powerful and will hurt who you are. By changing the display of words that affect your life, you can create a difference to your outlook and the way you live life.

Words, in general, can help a person to become intact and take responsibility for their thoughts. We must realize there is nothing that we can do to control the thoughts or words of other people. A person must be responsible for his or her own words. When we realize that, we will find our positivity to shine.

Be careful of your thoughts, for your thoughts become your words. Be careful of your words, for your words become your actions. Be careful of your actions, for your actions become your habits. Be careful of your habits, for your habits become your character. Be careful of your character, for your character becomes your destiny. — Chinese proverb

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What It’s Like to Be a Stay at Home Mom – the Pro and the Con

Stay at home mom what they doSome have the impression stay-at-home moms have much time on their hand, no; they do not have a ton of time to kill and not only do they work but, being at home is not as easy as it looks. Taking care of the home and caring for a child all day is the most important thing a woman can do. However, also it is like being fresh out of cold hard cash and being in the gym for nine hours’ straight with no opportunity to snag a moment for yourself. Nonetheless, don’t take my word the best thing to do is get out there and learn from other moms you enjoy being around.

Indeed, stay-at-home moms have an extremely challenging, voluntary job that to some folks looks like a peaceful vacation full of getting well-deserved rest. Moreover, on some days the impression is right but on other days it consists of making calls, doing laundry, running errands, cleaning and taking care of little ones who ask too many questions. However, stay-at-home moms do everything including making the ultimate sacrifice to have a happy family.

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Great things Happen When We Stop Waiting and Start Doing


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Some of us spend so much of our times waiting for many different things in life but if you are waiting for your life to start, know that your life is waiting for you to get on board of taking control of it. We as human are not good at putting time into perspective. One of my favorite quotes is “How much of human life is lost in waiting.”– Ralph Waldo Emerson. Take into consideration; this is your life you are responsible for starting your life. Question: Do you know the standard time people spends waiting day by day? Research shows the answer as forty-five to sixty-two minutes waiting every day.

Across the world, there are millions of people with an excellent project in mind, but they are putting no effort to put things in action. Why fantasize about a project and sit around waiting until it takes a turn for the worse? Perhaps it is because you like to dream big and be hopeful but to receive benefits and rewards it needs to be put into action.

Having information, which is backed up with hard work is the ingredient that ensures an excellent result. While you love to talk, rewards come to those who make things happen.

Finding The Right Hairstyle To Suit Your Face Shape

Finding best hair stye for face shapeAlthough many do not take into consideration, face shape is one of the most significant determining factors in finding the right hairstyle. An excellent hairstyle can make a powerful statement— it can enhance your ‘positive’ features and relax the ‘negative’ ones. Also, it can help you look and feel your best.

So, when searching for the ideal hairstyle for your face shape, it can be like going on a blind date if you do not know your face shape. You do not know what to expect or what’s you will receive. Even if you see a picture of what you are getting; it may even make your heart flutter, but as soon as you receive the style, and it does not flatter your face, you quickly understand why not every hairstyle is flattering for every face.

For a woman who love being as daring or as classic as she’d like and ready to update her look with the most flattering hairstyle. First, venture before choosing a style that fit your face. Start by learning your face shape. Then you are ready to have the freedom to change your looks by getting the hairstyle of your desire. The first ruling of discovering a flattering hairstyle for your face shape is not ever head to the salon for a new ‘do’ before establishing the shape of your face.

It is vital to know your facial shape because face preferences do not only affect hairstyle it has an impact on a diverse range of significant public outcome. It can affect mate choices, hiring decisions and the decision concerning a sociable relationship. Whether we know it or not the facial characteristics that influence attractiveness carries a powerful effect on each person because we are all judged by our faces.

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What Most People Probably Don’t Know about Juice Cleanse


The body goes through different situations that put it at an enormous disadvantage, especially if a person has picked up a bad habit, inhales toxic substances or is exposed to pollution. Owing to the changing lifestyles we live in today, the body needs proper cleansing; that is where juice cleanses can be extremely beneficial for the body. It can be particularly useful to the body if you suffer from digestive troubles or poor health.

With so much environmental toxins going into the body like passive smoking, pesticides and automobile fumes, we seriously need to reduce the toxin intake. That means we need to detox regardless what our diet is; so for the most part, a cleanse is what it takes to remove “harmful” things from the body.

When juice cleansing, it is best to target a specific organ like the liver or colon and cleanse that area to make the body feel better. It is best to consult a doctor before undergoing a cleanse just to make sure that it is safe for your body; as the body is not in the best of health, juice cleansing may cause risk.

For instance, If you have low blood sugar, or are a diabetic, you basically might feel awful during a juice fast. Even though juice cleansing is very helpful for the body, it sometimes can be terrible for people with poor health.

What Happens in Your Body during a “Cleanse” & What to Expect

If you are thinking about doing a juice cleanse, it is best to find out what to expect as the first step to take. Juice cleanses are popular and generally last from a few days to several weeks. It is the individual’s choice how long it last. Juice cleansing is where a person consumes only fruit and vegetable juices to maintain nutrition while otherwise abstaining from eating food. It normally improves the person’s health, mood, and appearance.

I enlisted the help of difference nutritionists to make sure I know what to expect and the kinds of things that can happen to the body when embarking on a juice cleanse.

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The Five Pros and Cons of being a Stay-at-Home Mom

The study shows that a number of experts in child development feel there is no replacement for the devotion and motherly love that mothers gives, especially if the alternative is a unstable, and poorly managed childcare. However, when faced with the dilemma to stay home with the children or go to work, it is not always an easy decision.

As a matter of fact, one would think that a stay-at-home parent live the life of luxury, but that is not truth a stay-at-home parent can sometimes feel as if they are trapped juggling many responsibilities. However, when a mother gives birth to a child she wants the best for her child. A mother always wishes that life’s greatest opportunities be offered to her child.

Working mother -VS- stay-at-home mother

Many working females need to make a difficult decision of whether to focus on earning money equal to two incomes or stay at home looking after the child/children to ensure they are given proper care. With the cost of living continuing to rise it is not an easy decision. But one thing for sure as a stay-at-home mom, odds are you will always be available when your child needs you as opposed to the child being stuck in a low-quality daycare. So let’s take a look at the pros and cons of staying home with the children or going to work.

The Five Pros of staying at home

#1 Spend less money: Working in the American corporate world, an individual must maintain the job. She must dress and look presentable, wear professional clothing, keep hair, nails and makeup, and simultaneously take care of bills and weekly gas expenses. It can be surprising how much money it costs to get through a weekly routine of fulfilling a job.

#2 Sometimes Females feel unfulfilled: Just taking care of the children, cooking, laundry, and grocery shopping just isn’t enough to make her feel complete, she needs more. She needs her own income to be able to feel complete.

#3. Staying at home can make a female feel lonely and depressed:Sometimes a woman can feel lonely staying at home. She might fear to lose her identity after losing a career that once made her feel complete. Taking care of children, doing laundry, grocery shopping and taking care of her spouse just isn’t enough to make her feel her own value. She can get depressed and thus she needs to find a way to feel complete and find happiness again.

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10 Steps to Tap into the Power of Imagination to Make Your Dreams Come True

ten stepsImagine having the power to obtain all the wisdom in the world to achieve your grandest dreams. Give it some thought, what dreams in the world would you fascinate? To build a dream a person has to know it possibly will come true. Great dreamers are achievers, and they accomplish mighty things. A lot of us never see our dreams come to reality because we do not have a vision, and we have not uncovered the remarkable power of an idea.

To successfully build a dream one must believe in their idea along with having a vision for the future. Then tap into the power of imagination to make that dream come true. Also, the individual must have an open mind and allow him or herself to have the courage to find freedom on the way to foreseeing the fantasy until it becomes a reality. Your dream has to be thought out carefully before putting them into effect. You might even have to rethink it, stay on it or level it with other considerations; as you are strengthening the foundation on which to build your ideas. Also, you have to know how far can your dreams take you; it will take you as far as the power of imagination and inspiration go.

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Did You Know…You Complete Me?


Did you know…I remember so well the very first day that you came my way; and all the times you shared your strength, it gave me the courage to be strong?

Did you know…I remember so well the very first day that you came my way; all the times you shared your strength, it gave me the courage to be strong?

Did you know…after you asked for my name that very day my life started to change; in the right way with you by my side you made me feel like things will be alright?

Did you know…with you in my life I wake up each morning feeling so much joy; more joy than I felt in a long time, it is not every day that someone like you comes along to help me walk the right path?

Did you know… there was an empty space in my heart; until you came and filled the enormous void?

Did you know…to have you in my life is like a dream; because it is not every day that dreams come true, and someone comes my way to do so many things I like?

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Being an Effective Mentor – Making Aging Positive

slide_28.jpgAccording to research women everywhere seem to fear aging more than men, and men worldwide appear to worry more than females about performing. If you are among the count that struggles with the feelings of fear, you can understand the fear within you. It will help to understand your fear by knowing fear is a necessary response to any form of danger—if we did not feel it, we would not be able to protect ourselves from reasonable threats.

photo-3Women.jpgTraumas or bad experiences can trigger a fear response but as soon as you understand why it is alright to feel fear in your life you can find self-control. Restraint will allow you to release your concerns to find satisfaction; so fear, worry, or doubt don’t control and define your lives.

The first step to discovering self-control is to identify in what areas of your life need more restraint. Where in your life lacking more self-control, for example, a fear of “Who will take care of me?”, a fear of not being loved, fear of being alone or a fear of not having enough money, which is the biggest concern among many.

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