How You May Appear Unattractive and Not Know It!

unattractiveI think of myself as a pleasant and fair person, a kind person who is loving and giving to everyone and a people person. I have been teaching my children, the beauty of an individual is not in a facial mole, but true beauty inside a person. Teaching character traits are an ongoing process, and there are character traits to avoid because they are unhealthy habits.

As children, we all learn our personality from the people around us, if we grow up with high self-esteem, it’s plays a considerable influence in determining the type of adult that child will eventually become. However, if we grow up with low self-esteem and being rude and get a reputation for it, this feeling of being “tainted” can be carried into adulthood.

Confucius said, “Everything has its beauty, but not everyone sees it.” We all are familiar with the Proverbs beauty is only skin deep, the world is full of beautiful people, but being a beautiful person is not only in the skin, but beautiful is also in the eye of the beholder and comes from within.

If you would just take a scroll through a model’s portfolio, or just look around – the world is full of beautiful people. However, true beauty is a rare and seldom recognized by the individual who possesses it. In fact, the most impressive feature in the world – is a unique kind of beauty, the one that you cannot see.

Some people may seem unappealing to others by their selfish behavior, cockiness, and arrogance during interactions with others and not know it. Everyone should strive to be a noble, kind, caring and compassionate person because We all want to be loved, but what feels good to us is feeling the love. There are many ‘unhealthy habits’ that people have that make them seem unattractive and annoying, and it is hard for them to know they have fallen off the attractive wagon. A person’s behavior can make him or her unattractive because attractiveness does not only come from outside, it comes from within, too.

It is sometimes hard to know how unattractive you are when you are so focused on yourself. It is even more difficult to know when you’ve fallen off the attractive wagon. If you wonder Why? It is normally because when a person lets his or herself go, people are not going to be inclined to tell him or her to their face that they are heading towards that unattractive territory. Also, when a person is not aware that they are acting in an unpleasant way… a manner that is so unattractive, they forget that attractiveness is not just what is seen with the eyes, it is also what we feel with our hearts and souls.

When a person starts to look unattractive, people might hint, but more often they will feel uncomfortable telling them. That is why a person is responsible for being self-aware and present always. When a beautiful girl is around an ugly person, she feels prettier around them, and when an ugly girl is around an attractive person, she feels uglier. Moreover, if you think about it, even a walk down the street and meeting the wrong person can change the way you think about your look. It is more likely because our brains have a built-in tracker that never stops gathering data.

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If I Could Write One Character Off My Favorite TV Show, Which Character Would I Choose?

The have and have nots

The Haves and The Have Nots” is one of my favorite TV show. It is a television show that begins airing on the “Owns” network on May 28, 2013, at 9/8c. The Haves and The Have Nots” is written and produced by Mr. Tyler Perry. The show is about three families, two rich and one poor. These families follow a storyline like the style seen in “Dynasty” and “Knots Landing” episodes of the past, filled with gripping drama. The story line is convoluted filled with deceit, sex, betrayal, secrets and lot of news shooting to the surface.

“The Haves and The Have Nots” is the first television night time soap to be written and released on the Oprah Winfrey Network. It is a drama series following three affluent families and their lifestyles as they intersect with one another in Savanna Georgia. The Haves and the Have Nots is “OWN’s most popular series airing and one of the biggest drama series watched among all of the cable television.

The show’s group of actors is multiracial that consist of three families. Two families that are of the upper-class, one are Caucasian American, and the other is African American; one family that is poor and African American. The show is currently debuted to 2.99 million viewers, only a little under the previous season premiere viewership of 3.11 million. The positively reviewed tale of two wealthy and one poor Georgian families are into the fifth season.

The first wealthy family consists of the character of Jim Cryer; he is the Cryer, family patriarch. John Schneider plays Jim Cryer. Jim is married to Katheryn Cryer. Renee Lawless plays Katheryn, and they have two children, Wyatt Cryer and Amanda Cryer. Aaron O’Connell plays Wyatt, and Jaclyn Bethman plays Amanda.

Jim Cryer is a criminal courts judge who is a destructively thoughtless patriarch who has had a series of affairs, but he has his eyes set on becoming Governor of Savanna Georgia. Katheryn Cryer was born into one of the wealthiest families and is a warm, sensitive, caring but highly passive-aggressive wife of Jim Cryer. She has a tendency of holding her feelings in but when she let it out, she been known to express herself in ways that are unhealthy. Katheryn is all too aware that Jim is married to her for money but stay married to him to make his life more miserable.

The second rich family is the Harrington families who are dubbed in wealth, status and power head by family headman David Harrington play by Peter Parros. David is married to Veronica Harrington play by Angela Robinson. They have one son, Jeffrey Harrington and Gavin Houston plays him. David is a judge who is Jim Cryer’s business partner, and he’s always cleaning up Jim’s messes because their career path is currently aligned. Because of trying to clean up Jim’s messes so often, David has gotten himself into serious dilemmas and difficulties of his own.

Veronica was raised from South Side, Chicago, the “tough hood” side; she lives a rags-to-riches life through arduous work and determination. She is an attorney who has created an indomitable and highly proficient reputation. Veronica has a reputation as being intimidating, manipulative, vicious, malicious and overbearing. She’s one-of-a-kind brand of villain and lives up to the name advertised by OWN, “The Ice Queen.”

The third family is head by a single mother name Hanna Young played by Crystal Fox. She is the Cryer’s maid, and she has two children, Benny Young played by Tyler Lepley and Candace Young played by Tike Sumpter. Hanna has a wild sexual past that left her a single mother raising two children alone. However, she found peace and comfort when she changed her life giving it to God and knew that He has long forgiven her for her wild sexual past. She’s now a soulful, religious, nurturing, mother and grandmother who is trustworthy and reliable who has won the respect of her boss Katheryn Cryer.

To share a little on the beginning chapters, Jim is a philandering and two-timer who cheated with a young prostitute, Candace Young, and pays little or no attention to his wife Katheryn, who battled cancer. Because of Jim long, and elaborate history of cheating He and Katheryn aren’t close anymore. However, whenever they out in public, they present themselves as having a vigorous and loving marriage. Candace Young pretends to be best friends with Jim’s Daughter, Amanda, who is a struggling law student. She blackmails the Judge for $100,000 and a new sports car.

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