I think of myself as a pleasant and fair person, a kind person who is loving and giving to everyone and a people person. I have been teaching my children, the beauty of an individual is not in a facial mole, but true beauty inside a person. Teaching character traits are an ongoing process, and there are character traits to avoid because they are unhealthy habits.
As children, we all learn our personality from the people around us, if we grow up with high self-esteem, it’s plays a considerable influence in determining the type of adult that child will eventually become. However, if we grow up with low self-esteem and being rude and get a reputation for it, this feeling of being “tainted” can be carried into adulthood.
Confucius said, “Everything has its beauty, but not everyone sees it.” We all are familiar with the Proverbs beauty is only skin deep, the world is full of beautiful people, but being a beautiful person is not only in the skin, but beautiful is also in the eye of the beholder and comes from within.
If you would just take a scroll through a model’s portfolio, or just look around – the world is full of beautiful people. However, true beauty is a rare and seldom recognized by the individual who possesses it. In fact, the most impressive feature in the world – is a unique kind of beauty, the one that you cannot see.
Some people may seem unappealing to others by their selfish behavior, cockiness, and arrogance during interactions with others and not know it. Everyone should strive to be a noble, kind, caring and compassionate person because We all want to be loved, but what feels good to us is feeling the love. There are many ‘unhealthy habits’ that people have that make them seem unattractive and annoying, and it is hard for them to know they have fallen off the attractive wagon. A person’s behavior can make him or her unattractive because attractiveness does not only come from outside, it comes from within, too.
It is sometimes hard to know how unattractive you are when you are so focused on yourself. It is even more difficult to know when you’ve fallen off the attractive wagon. If you wonder Why? It is normally because when a person lets his or herself go, people are not going to be inclined to tell him or her to their face that they are heading towards that unattractive territory. Also, when a person is not aware that they are acting in an unpleasant way… a manner that is so unattractive, they forget that attractiveness is not just what is seen with the eyes, it is also what we feel with our hearts and souls.
When a person starts to look unattractive, people might hint, but more often they will feel uncomfortable telling them. That is why a person is responsible for being self-aware and present always. When a beautiful girl is around an ugly person, she feels prettier around them, and when an ugly girl is around an attractive person, she feels uglier. Moreover, if you think about it, even a walk down the street and meeting the wrong person can change the way you think about your look. It is more likely because our brains have a built-in tracker that never stops gathering data.