Malcolm spent his entire life on the Internet. Sara was tired of hearing the tap, tap of his computer. She wanted to feel loved, to feel needed, but she was not going to get it from Malcolm while he was locked away in the office with that dang computer. Sara felt there was only one thing for her to do, and that was to get a computer and get on the Internet as well.
Sara desires to find someone online that would love her, need her, and give her the attention she so needs. Sara also wants someone who would take the time to listen to her. There are plenty of dating websites for finding love.
Sara posted her bio; she was happy with the old photo she had cut out of a magazine. She has come to the point in her life where she was tired of feeling lonely she was ready to find love. The picture did not look like her so no one would know. Primary technology rules the world today and many these days relies on the computers for finding love.
Because so many relies on the Internet, the Internet has become the leading means of communication worldwide. This can be an enormous convenience and a huge problem. Some people are so addictive to the Internet that it hard for them to imagine their life without it.
Searching for love on the Internet does not always work because many put on a false front and conceal their true identities. I am not saying that searching for love on the Internet is entirely wrong, but dating on the web is limited to only the Internet.
Meeting a guy face to face also have things that you have to look out for daily. However, some people turn to the Internet because meeting a guy face to face for some reason things just keep going wrong. Many are searching for any form of guide to help ensure a higher success rate in love.
Sara read different emails, she an email about a forty-six-year-old divorced father of two searching for an attractive female to bring out the best in him, but she felt he was a creep and a bore. However, that was until that one email that turned her head. He called himself Will, and it seemed fitting to him somehow.
He seems so comfortable in his style of writing; he had encouraged her to open up and tell him about who she really was. That seemed so refreshing. She signed her letters “Emily” and although she was never called Emily that is whom she had always wanted to be.
He wrote after one month of heart-rending correspondence.
“You never need to feel solitude again. I swear I will always be here.”
She loved those words and looked smugly over the dinner table at Malcolm that night. He slurped his soup and then hid his face behind the newspaper. She could never imagine Will ever slurping soup. She imagined him whirling her away to foreign places. Her heart leaped with love every time she thought of him. He was everything she ever wished for and everything Malcolm could never be.
When the tip tap of Malcolm’s computer died, Sara had to go through the motions of funeral and arrangements, but it was not until much later when the guests had gone that she walked into his study. Will had not written for four days, four days when she needed him most. She typed an email, with such sadness in her heart:
“I love you, Will and I want us to be together always. Maybe even as man and wife.”
Surely he would write tonight; she thought but when she begin checking for it there were no emails in the inbox. Reaching down into the drawer of the desk, she continued to sort through bundles of paper until one particular bundle caught her eye. Wrapped in pink ribbon, were folded up messages, printed from the computer and as she opened the first one, she suddenly realized her loss was more than she ever expected when she read the words:“My dearest Will” on the first letter she unfolded, sent by someone called Emily.
Ladies, there have been countless sad stories about different females who seem to search for love on the Internet just to find their perfect man was in a relationship with them the entire time. They learn they just never took the time to notice the love until it too late.
We should never hold Mr. Right to an unexpected standard or a picture-perfect standard and don’t assume the person you with can’t meet expectation. Also never think the relationship you in should go in a particular way step out of the box and remember the relationship depend on the needs of both parties not just you.
Also, remember it up to you to reveals Mr. Right as your perfect man, you control the direction of your life. It up to us to be able to focus and manage our life as much as possible. Never take the relationship you in for granted because sometimes one cannot see that the person you are initial with appeared to be your perfect man right under your nose until it is too late.
Never allow yourself to be consumed by your expectations and cannot see that Mr. Right, your true love the one you is destined to be with is with you all the time and that you have spent wasteful time chasing waterfall.