“You have to live with the consequences of your decisions, so learn from your mistakes and think before you act”.

Decision-making requires an open approach that encompasses all aspects, an attitude that looks at every perspective and a broad vision that considers every possibility no matter how big or small it is. In short, there are neither shortcuts nor easy formulas for right decision-making.

So what does decision-making means? When we have to do something, but we are not sure of how, and what to do, we stand at the crossroads of decision-making. The key to making a wise decision is the ability to select the right course of action and ask the right questions. Once we figure out the right path, it becomes necessary for us to find out the meaningful answers to crucial questions for being able to make a wise decision. When it becomes a matter of our own lives, we need to gather up the courage to take decisions on our own. Is it possible to decide the best decision for us if we place the decision-making process in the hands of others? And if we place the right of decision-making in hand of others, for how long we can ask others to guide us for the right decision? Eventually, we have to learn making decisions by our own selves as the life is too long, and we cannot depend on others.

It is of pivotal importance that we keep a keen insight into right decision making in each choice we make. There are several aspects of our day to day lives wherein we need to select the best between various choices. What we want to be as an adult, a doctor, an engineer, a designer or a writer? What we have to study in school, science or arts? Which types of clothes are good for us, considering the society we live in besides the fashion and glamor?

Is it good for us to be single or having family will be better for us? What type of life partner should we have? Is it good to be in business or to work a job? Whether it is good to be an employee or an employer? What is best the choice in renting an apartment, getting house on mortgage or purchasing our own home on full payment? What should we eat for lunch? Whatever we choose it ultimately determines how we live and what kind of lives we should have.

Making the right decision requires that a person must think well before he acts, as it is not a matter of luck or a toss of a coin, it is a matter of life. It is the self-mastery of taking control over our own thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. There are several reasons why a person should think before their act; the main one being that they have to live their life with the consequences of their decisions. In our lives, we are constantly being confronted by challenges of diverse kinds, but what matters is the ability to make the right decision at the right time. What matters most is to think well before we act so we can avoid costly pitfalls and irreversible mistakes. If we fail to think straight, it might result in a big irrevocable mistake thus leading to a sticky situation which may end up only in regret and pain. Keep it in mind that we can learn from our mistakes only in case when we truly admit that we had committed them. As this is the first step of learning. If we insist on our mistakes or try to defend what we have done is the right action and refuse to admit our faults and mistakes, we can neither learn from them nor can we have improvement in ourselves as good human beings. Which may lead us to more irremediable mistakes.

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The eyes are useless when the mind is blind.

1_eyes-useless-mind-blindMeandering down the promenade alone, peering at the grassy greens I go by and seeking desperately for the haven of Life. I do not know how I attained this distance, but I cling to the hope that I will find my way. Nothing familiar has entered my view; my ears have yet to encounter familiar sounds, and my heart, defiantly, opposes my hope and whispers to me that I am still hopelessly far. I have been traveling for such a long time without a clear picture of my ultimate destination that I am frightened, exposed, and vulnerable. I cringe at the thought of taking a step, yet I am horrified at the prospect of not moving. The mechanics of sight still attend me, for my eyes search to and fro, but I can perceive nothing because my mind is disconsolately absent and lost. These eyes are useless when my mind is blind.

I move forward in fear, and even if only through the learned repetition, I begin to talk with the Lord. “Lord, I cannot feel, but I know you are near me, Your Hands stretched out to help me.” But how can you help me, this lost sojourner seeing but blind? I am gripped with unimaginable terror. I know you, but I also need to feel you. To feel your loving and warm embrace.

In a moment of epiphany, with a temporarily resuscitated mind, I come to recognize that I cannot fight this war in fear. My paralysis is the result of my despair, and the end of it will be no different from the beginning.

But I sink again to the absence of mind. I suddenly notice again that in all my wandering; I am very alone. I question my movements, my motives, my past, my decisions. Should I keep going? Will the haven of Life be worth it upon my arrival? Can I make a U-turn and change my course forever?

Inevitably, feelings of guilt and shame and disgrace envelope me. I have failed myself, but inestimably worse is the fact that I feel like I have failed you. I clench my fists around my garment with a present uneasiness. Then it hits me! You have been here with me all along, watching my every move, trying to open my eyes and open the eyes of my mind, to realize that what I needed was you.

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How can a Mother overcome hurt of a Broken Heart while loving and caring for her child?

a_mother-broken-heartA broken heart is something almost everyone has experienced at least once in his/her lifetime. But there is no hurt or pain a person could ever go through like that of a mother when she tries to care and love her child and while handling her child’s wrong doings. I believe once a mother, always a mother, but after many disappointments there comes a time when a mother has to finally take care of herself as she takes care of her child. As mothers, we deal with a lot of hurt and stress too often that causes a broken heart which can at times be very severe. This hurt could ultimately lead to regret or tragic circumstances, consuming a mother’s life if she doesn’t resist it. However, with the right treatment and advice there is hope to mend a broken heart and make any mother live as a whole again.

While facing a few difficult times with my own children, I’ve discovered that thousands of mothers are similarly dealing with agonizing heartaches and pain. I feel blessed and take pleasure in sharing my own experience. I take pride in telling that now many of my pains are limited, and most of them are over. Through my learning of how to make peace with my children’s dealings, my advice to a broken hearted mother is that if you find yourself in heartbreak for endless number of times, all mothers must make peace with what is going on with their child. At the very least, respect the effort and cherish every moment you spend with your child. I learned to do that through prayer, practicing patience and understanding. I came to the realization and made peace with what was going on with my children and learned to treasure every moment we shared.

How to overcome hurt from a broken heart?

Firstly, spend some time in prayer on a regular basis. This will help you in analyzing the mistakes you make while trying to cope with your child’s ill behavior or bad deeds. Secondly, help your child realize that their activities haven’t been up to the mark, and continue to show love but firm love. Thirdly, get involved with other mothers by joining a support team (trust worthy church-going mothers). Last but not the least, never give up hope, never speak rudely or shower negative words on your child even when it seems like things are getting worse. This requires considerable control over anger and managing the situation tactfully. Always stay positive, try not to think about what wrong has the child done, and don’t make an issue of what the child did although this might hurt you. Make peace with what the child did and start doing things with the child that you both love doing. It could be anything, like bowling, watching TV, singing, dancing, etc. This will show that you love them, which would in turn keep your communication line open to maintain a loving relationship thereby.

If you have ever suffered a broken heart, you know it can cause extreme and debilitating pain. In addition, it can be both mentally and physically draining and can cause suffering, eventually taking you down into depression and even physical illness unless you put an end to it by learning to manage yourself through the hard phase. But the good thing is that you don’t have to accept the hurt and pain, you have a choice. Follow my steps to overcome hurt from a broken heart, and you can live as a whole again. I know how I overcame it and so I know that if I can, so can you.

Do not expect that you cannot let the evil thoughts, bad talks come to your children. TV, Friends and Public a lot of sources will spread such things and in this regard your only duty is to fill your child’s heart with love, positivity and passion to aim and achieve high. While doing so, you are training your child very well to overcome the negativity.

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The Advice I Would Give to My Younger Self If I Could

3_dear-younger-selfGrowing up was particularly difficult for me. I was unable to play freely outside as other children were, and I developed poor self-esteem. The only two places I was truly free to go to were school and church. Do not misunderstand me, I love attending church and “don’t nobody” love God as much as I do. Being honest, however, it is not as much fun from the perspective of a young child. Because I spent most of my time inside, I had to find ways to entertain myself inside the house. I developed a very creative imagination.

By the time I reached middle school, I was learning how to interact with other children my own age. I began, slowly, to develop better self-esteem. I had the best mother you could ask for. She always paid attention to that developing self-esteem and always knew how to make everything better. She taught me to be conscientious about my appearance. She taught me how to fold my dress when I sat down. Most of all, she shared with me her wisdom. She taught me to “always love who and what you are.” I understood that it is great to love someone else, but it is even better when you love yourself.

I didn’t know then everything that I know today, but I always knew that someday I would have children. Now that I do, I want to be as patient and loving to them as my mother was with me. I want to be there for them in their times of need, just as my mother was there for me. I want to let them know that it will be okay when they feel afraid, and teach them to always take one day at a time so that life does not consume them.

As a child, we see life as fun and games, rather than as it really is. As an adult, I have learned that life is really like a boomerang. We throw our best effort out there and nobody really knows how it will return. Most people hope life will bring them an attractive spouse with money, a nice big house, and a nice big car. Sometimes, though, that is not what the boomerang brings back. Life doesn’t work that way. Life is what we make of it.

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What Children Experience and How to Focus on teaching them to Enjoy the Experience of a Childhood?

kids-playing-2 (2)Childhood is one of the most memorable times in everyone’s childhood. Some people have good and positive experiences with their childhood while some of the people have the worst experience with it. There are a number of factors that contribute to the right or wrong experiences of people with their childhoods. Some of these factors have been explained below:

  • Environment of the family

Family environment plays a significant role in giving a good or bad experience with any child. Sometimes children have so strong environment around them that they get entertained and enjoy their childhood in an accurate manner. In some cases, it is up to the children to make their childhood memorable. It is only possible when they follow all the rules and regulations and fulfill all the activities in time. For an example, they should go to their school regularly and perform all related work before doing any other activity. This is one of the important factors that contribute towards experiences of the childhood.

  • Attitudes of the parents

Parent’s attitudes and interests also play a significant role in providing good experiences to the children. If they are really focused on the children future, they will show concern and give a bright childhood to their children. They spend money on minor needs and wants of their children without noticing their needs or compromising their own wishes. It also gives a good experience of childhood to the children. In some cases, parents do not care about what their children want to hence spoil the children of their future. It is crucial that parents should focus on the needs of their children and have a positive attitude towards their children.

  • Friends circle

The circle of friends also plays a vital role in building a better experience of childhood. As we all know that a person is known by the company, he keeps. If the friends of the children are good, then, they can enjoy a healthy childhood. In early ages, children don’t have the sense to make good friends so the parents and teachers should help the children to choose their friends so that they can enjoy their best childhood.

  • Types of experiences of childhood

There are different experiences faced by the children in their childhood. Some children face good experience while some face bad experiences of childhood. All the above-mentioned factors contribute equally to determining the right or wrong experience of childhood.

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Mystery Unraveled; a Honeymoon that Never Was!

mauritius-islandPeople usually say that being newlyweds is very enjoying and the honeymoon that comes into the picture is a sweet and memorable experience of a lifetime. Newlyweds often look forward to their honeymoon since it would be the time for them to experience the highest level of affection. The couple, Patsy, and Henry thought that a honeymoon trip in Mauritius was one of the best things they could ever experience in their life. This is something they had both been planning for a long time. Henry was a sailor by passion and he always loved exploring new places. His last voyage before their grand wedding was to prepare for their dream honeymoon destination. This was a year before their wedding. Henry wanted to find the best tourist spots they would visit during their honeymoon trip. However, everything did not happen according to plan. Imagine how it would have felt for your loved one to suddenly disappear in spite of all the preparations and plans. I can literally feel the pain and hopelessness that will always be over your head like a dark cloud. This is a story of a young couple who were about to get married, Henry and Patsy. Getting married is something they had both been looking forward to, and their dream honeymoon destination was Mauritius. Just a year before their grand wedding, Henry decided to sail forth to the beautiful island of Mauritius perhaps to make preparations for their dream honeymoon trip to the island. However, until the present, Patsy, despite all hopelessness, is still waiting to see and be with her loved one, Henry. Where could Henry be? No news or phone calls. The search for Henry by the government resulted in no information regarding his whereabouts or condition, and Patsy is heavily depressed. Is there any end in sight to this mystery? Read on.

The five years that has passed without Henry has been excruciatingly painful and unacceptable to Pasty. Every day, she wakes up to pray and seeks solace from close friends, families, and relatives, but no news has ever informed her regarding the whereabouts of Henry. Pasty and Henry had been planning their marriage since their college days. They both knew; nothing in this world would make them feel so complete, happy and satisfied in achieving their goals together. For Patsy, it has been lonely and endless moments of pain but she still waited each new day to see here love again. Agony and intolerability have been the result of each passing day since the day Henry sailed forth to Mauritius. The thought of Henry would always remind her of the sweet memories they had spent together and especially during their college days. “I don’t know where to start from but the search for my husband has been a painful experience and especially now that, his son and only kid John is old enough to start going to school stating Patsy. On that fateful day when Henry left for Mauritius they made love, “I am always scared, I spend my days crying, hoping and wishing to see him again “narrates Patsy.” The only thing I don’t want to think is the possibility of never seeing him again “she asserts.

Henry and Patsy started dating back in college. According to many, they were naturally meant for each other. They complemented each other in many ways, and everyone said they were destined to get married and live a happy life together. To date, Patsy has not yet discovered the mystery in the disappearance of her love and which aches her heart every single day. “It has been five years since I bid him goodbye with a hug, hoping he would return soon for our wedding,” says Patsy amid sobs. This is probably the worst experience anyone deeply in love can go through. They had been talking on the phone until the time Henry wished her goodnight. That was the last word she ever heard from her man. She actually wished to settle down and have beautiful children together, but life can be very cruel and ruin a beautiful dream that was blossoming into a full flare of happiness and love.

There have been mind-boggling stories of mysterious disappearances of planes, ships, sailors, and even divers with no trace of their whereabouts. While some have been found kidnaped or killed, however, for Patsy, it has been years of agony and a story that still doesn’t have an ending. The government had deployed its navy to search for the lost citizen in the raging waters of the Indian Ocean but with no trace. He never drowned in the vast waters of the Ocean. His boat was found docked along the Beach of Mauritius Island, and this finding has complicated the search for Henry. This sounded more perplexing than fiction and perhaps a complicated situation with no concrete approach. According to the authorities, families, friend and relatives, Henry anchored safely on the coastline of Mauritius but what remains a mystery is his whereabouts for over five years with no trace. Records indicate that he had checked into one of the hotels on the day of his arrival but what had happened after that? No one knows where he could have gone the following day when he woke up. He loved sailing and fishing a lot. Being a sailor means always being on the go too far lands and islands. It is always about discovering new places. While the search for a missing sailor continues, for Patsy, it is a wait and watch the scenario. Patsy believes that Henry is still in the woods of the Mauritius, or perhaps towards the south where he had been stuck in a place with no network to enable him to communicate to the people back home. It is hard to guess especially because sailors love to do many things, like fishing. Discovery is always a top priority, and just like the ones who sailed many centuries ago and came back with the news of new finds and artifacts.

Back home, Henry had sired a baby boy whom Patsy named John. Five years is a long time, and John has reached the age of attending kindergarten. He began asking his mom about the whereabouts of his dad. It is probably one of the most difficult things to explain and especially to a boy of John’s age. At the age of five to ten, children tend to be curious and inquisitive. This is something Patsy finds difficult to cope with and sometimes get furious about. The only thing she tells John is that his father has gone on a long journey and would soon be back. Sometimes it forces her to hide herself in agony as the wait is too agonizing, and she doesn’t want her only child to know about it. The memories of Henry keep lingering in Patsy’s mind and the presence of a son they have together reminded her so much of her loved one.

Patsy expected that Henry would be away for only four months. However, it took longer and Patsy began to worry. He had not sent her an email, and the only phone call they had was on the fateful day Henry left. In the fifth month, Patsy, could not bear it anymore. There was no news about Henry. The news about Henry being gone went viral. A search was organized with the assistance of the government. While some claimed he could have probably never sailed, others said he crossed over to Mauritius. Every day for about one year, print and broadcast media ran the story and pictures of Henry. They even published the sufferings of the lonely wife waiting for him. It was the talk of the town. It was a tense year for both the families of Henry’s and of Patsy’s. Hopes of ever finding Henry dwindled among many, including the government until the search was closed after one and a half years. The press interviewed Patsy, and each media house, both broadcast and print, had their own account, analysis, and approach of the story.

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Looking for the Perfect Pair of Jeans; How to choose the Perfect Pair of Jeans

1-How-to-Choose-the-Perfect-Pair-of-JeansAre you looking for a pair of jeans that you simply can’t do without? Is it that you are not ready to get rid of your old jeans, no matter how old or torn they are? Then fit is probably the most crucial factor while purchasing a new pair of jeans, and you should opt for jeans with a perfect fit. Here is a guide to finding the perfect pair of jeans. This guide will help you in figuring out the jeans that has been designed especially for you.

Simple tips to choose the right sort of jeans for women

The tall, slender women with a narrow waist should purchase a pair of jeans that has a lower waist with a little flare at the bottom. It helps accentuate a female with long legs

A short woman with broad hips should purchase jeans that are meant for short women and is called “Jo.” The hip portion of these jeans are spacious for the hips and make a short female look taller. Also, purchase jeans with a longer waist because they make short women look taller.

Skinny jeans are the perfect choice for slim women. Skinny jeans are very popular jeans, high in demand, and the best part is that they will go with almost anything.

When purchasing jeans I recommend that females of all sizes buy at least one pair of dark jeans because they are more versatile.

Useful tips to choose the perfect jeans for men

Men do not care as much for fashion as they mainly stress more on comfort when selecting their pair of jeans. To make sure you stay comfortable, look at the wash of the jeans. So wash of the jeans matter a lot to males as comfort is their priority. So they should look for jeans that will hold up to many different washes, and that will last a long time. Dark shades are for winter and fall while light colors are for summer.

Four factors to examine when choosing the perfect pair of jeans:

Factor #1 Price & Manufacturer

The price typically indicates the quality of jeans and the manufacturer means a lot to people who pay great attention to detail and care about style above everything else.

Factor #2Purpose to wear (Occasions)

It is extremely important to know when and where to wear jeans while selecting the perfect pair of jeans. One should also keep in mind jeans with a darker wash are more suitable at posh restaurants, workplace or trendy nightclubs, whereas lighter fades are worn more during the day and early evening.

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Learn How to Overcome Life’s Obstacles and Enjoy a Peaceful Life

beautiful-nature-cool-pictures-hd-wallpaperUpon our creation, God did not have an empty and miserable life in mind for us. We are not made to live oppressed by obstacles that life is imposing. He wished for us to enjoy ourselves peacefully and in a calm fashion during our lifetimes. A life which we can enjoy day to day, which makes us at peace with everything around us, even in difficult times. God’s original idea was to make a world similar to exotic and lush garden. Unfortunately, as Adam and Eve committed a sin, whole mankind was banned from the abundance the God had in mind for them. However, that does not have to mean end of serenity for us. When Jesus sacrificed himself on the cross for us and God let Him lose his life, this was all so we can have another opportunity for redemption and a joyful existence.

Each time the going gets tough, burden of the life weighs heavily upon our shoulders hindering our inherent potential as human beings; we don’t have to accept that as a rule of a law. Instead, we could find hope and solace in knowing that we have the power to fight and win against any calamity and secure ourselves a better tomorrow. When all is said and done, people tend to get fatigued from everyday tasks and choices that the life imposes upon them. Our lives are so hectic that we can’t spare any moment for our families or partners, for the things that we enjoy or that fulfill us as individuals. Planning our day carefully and making a list of things which we love to do can just be the right chance for us to embrace our happiness.

There is a simple, yet effective five-step process helping us achieve the state of mind that leads to serenity:

  • Faith without action is meaningless: Faith by itself, if it is not accompanied by action, is dead (James 2:17, NIV)
  • Do the correct thing and hope for the best: And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose. (Romans 8:28 NIV)
  • Hold on to your beliefs: Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours. (Mark 11:24 NIV)
  • Keep your thoughts pure, God is always watching: We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ. (II Corinthians 10:5 NIV)
  • Let the faith always lead you: The eye is the lamp of the body. If your eyes are healthy, your whole body will be full of light. (Matthew 6:22 NIV)

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The Surprising Way I Found my True Love

We experience so many surprises during our lifetime and they are still occasionally so breath-taking that it is hard to realize how lucky we are. Most of us felt as if our hearts were taken from us in some cases. On the other hand, many people always have good fortune in their corner. The point is that luck and lack of it are not on the opposites. Both of them are very specific entities that have different forms. Man can never comprehend how he falls in love, no one can teach us or tell us how this happens. The fact remains that the love is above everything and tramples all the obstacles in its way.true love

On life’s rocky road, succumbing to love both perplex us and makes us fortunate. I use the term ‘fortunate’ because people feel good in their skin and at peace with their soul. Consequently, this state was something that affected saints and commoners alike, and it persisted in their hearts no matter how long it lasted or how intensive it was. As the saying goes, love doesn’t care about years or skin color, or even our religious beliefs. Henceforth, individuals got rid of their social or religious views because loving someone for the entire life and being happy with them is the greatest gift we as people can receive and give.

Whoever is reading this, there is a big chance that you either love someone or that you are on a good track to do so. The main issue is, when and how to give yourself to this feeling. Second thing we wonder about is the place where we will find our soul mate and whether we will end up happily ever after. My love tale at first seemed more as a friendship, as something that will not bring any emotions, let alone love. In my case it spread its wing and began flying.

While traveling from Abu Dhabi to Los Angeles, during a cold winter, a few things happened to me. One of them would make me the person which I am today and mold my existence and life path. I never stood out in a crowd and I never felt comfortable in a group of women; the courage that came from within me puzzles me to this day. Like every traveler that flies from time to time because of work, I waited for the airplane to ascend so I could kick back and relax in my seat. I was listening to music, my preferred playlist, as the plane soared into the sky. Something was amiss, but the air attendants were flawless. At one point, a classy lady that spoke English and Spanish approached me. I had a burning desire to speak Spanish because it looked so easy; this was a chance to learn some new phrases.

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How to refuse someone while respecting and refuse to let small, petty people distract you from your big purpose

PettyIn a conservative family, such as mine, the father was always the go to person and his word was the law. Consequently, the role of a female was nothing more than an assistant to the above-mentioned authority figure. That is why I never saw my mother refuse my father.

Not that I am complaining, it is just that you need to know how to refuse a person if his wishes are going against yours, if the situation impedes your ability to learn and experience new things. The wisdom comes from the way you say it and, more importantly, how you say it.

I couldn’t even imagine my mother refusing something; there wasn’t even an inkling of opposition in my mother’s behavior. Nevertheless, in situations in which she didn’t agree with him, she would still manage to sway him with such elegancy that father didn’t even know what hit him.

One of the aspects of our lives that most individuals aren’t able to handle is to refuse their boss or manager. They think that saying no to their superior is just something that you don’t do and in a way it can mean your demise within the company. Sometimes it is even presented as a betrayal. The reality is that, if you can’t say no, you are only betraying yourself.

What I have learned being self-employed is that, in most of the cases, I behaved as a “yes” woman. Unfortunately, what I have learned the hard way is that giving a positive answer doesn’t necessarily bring a positive result. Occasionally, refusing the offer is much more profitable than taking it. Putting a strong front is what distinguishes successful from unsuccessful businessman.

Is it hard for you to refuse someone? Do you find other people’s happiness more important than yours? The most important thing for you is to learn how to oppose someone and stick to it through thick and thin while pushing all the negativity to the other side.

When your boss asks you to perform a task that is way beyond your reach or to do something that will compromise your chance of success, refusal is the best way to go. However, while doing it, keep the positive attitude and don’t present yourself as disobedient. The way you present it is the way he/she will perceive it. Do not try to share anything with your manager no matter how compelling it might be. It is not wise to make an obligation that you can’t fulfill, but I would be glad if someone gave me that respect. Anyway, don’t take it all upon yourselves.

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